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Stepping Lightly v3.0

 Stepping Lightly is not always about going down the easiest path you see ahead – it could mean making a choice that will have some steep hills and lots of mud to walk through for the sake of making your life better.

I have found that these past few weeks, I have really began to question the things around me and how I spend my time.  Maybe there are small amounts of action going on visibly from the outside, but my mind is reeling with questions about which path to take on so many different issues.

First and foremost, I have began questioning the things that I buy.  Usually it’s not until I get them at home and think, “Oh man.. I didn’t need this.”  But that thought will be come an action next time.  For example, I got a baby gift in the mail from an Aunt from Babies R Us.  I opened it, and it was the baby monitor I had put on my list.  After showing it to James, we both had a lightbulb go on saying, “Now was this necessary?!  For $35 and all that plastic!”  That might not have been the best thing on our registry – we will hear our baby cry, she will be safe where she is sleeping, and we both think it may have been excessive.

Beyond our purchases, we have began questioning how we spend our time.  On and off this week, I will be using a chart from Living Simply With Children to fill in exactly how I have spent my day.  It is amazing to me how much time I use the internet.  I knew it was a lot, but I never realized it was that much. 

First the thought, next the action.  Some of these actions aren’t clear to me yet, so I am still standing at the fork in the road and believing that I will make the best choice to continue on my Stepping Lightly path.

Stepping Lightly v2.0

 On our quest of living simply and stepping lightly, I have been drawn to my home and my family.  DH and I have taken the time to enjoy each other’s company more instead of resorting to a form of technology all of the time when we get “bored.”  What a joy it has been!

Some nights, we had been known to just take our plates and sit in front of our computers *bag over head*.  I can’t believe I even admit that, but I guess it’s not much different than some families that do the same thing but sit in front of the TV.  We have taken our dinners back to the table, and what a great time we’ve had chatted over a good homecooked meal.  Last night we discussed religion vs. spirituality and how we want to raise our little Sprout amongst it all.

We have used our evenings to work together on the house together.  The other night, we worked in our garage for a few hours and now it is organized, things we didn’t need are no longer there, and it’s all ready for a vehicle to fit in it this winter.  During that time, we had a lot of time to talk about what we want to keep and what we need to keep and why these things are important to us.  It’s so fun to be on the same page about our home and making it a simple and peaceful place to be.

I think I have also manifested ways of staying at home and not rushing around outside of my home.  Yesterday, I had planned to go to the high school to pick up some paperwork before rushing home to get dinner on and leaving again for the Tolle group.  But I had a soft tire, and instead had to call for an appointment for my tire which couldn’t happen until today and it is right next to the high school.  So, I will combine that trip and do both of those tasks today and WITH James.

How are you spending time with those you love?

 

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Stepping Lightly v1.0

Have you ever, in your life, kept running across phrases or people who bring you the same theme?  Do you think it is coincidence or do you take it as a sign to begin questioning yourself and finding an answer?

It all started for me with Michele’s blog, and her newest venture about writing about her Simple Life.  It all sounded so peaceful, so thankful, and yes so simple!  Many people may think I have a simple life – I work from home and have all of the freedom in the world to do what I please, but do I relish in it?  Not as much as I could.  Do I take time to find simple, efficient, and frugal ways to handle my home?  Not always.  Do I take time to enjoy the present moment as I learned from Eckhart Tolle?  Gosh, how I let that slip away so fast when something heated arises.

DH and I started reading Walden together about a week ago.  We haven’t made it too far because we get about 1 page through it and we get inspired and talk for 30 minutes about the world, the economy, the state of people living beyond their means, and the state of our hurried and cluttered lives.  He wants a simple life too!

The last straw was at the Tolle group last night, and as we were listening to his audio these words stood out to me.  STEP LIGHTLY.  Don’t walk with your burdens, don’t let things drag you down, live in the moment and enjoy the air you are breathing, your heart that is beating because the moment isn’t bad.  It’s all you have.

I’ll be Stepping Lightly and blogging about it on Thursdays.  Be sure to join me! :)

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